Buncombe County Faces Ongoing Domestic Violence Challenges: A Community’s Call to Action
In the charming area of Buncombe County, nestled in the heart of North Carolina, the topic of domestic violence is nothing short of serious. This is a community that has seen its fair share of heartbreak and tragedy related to intimate partner violence, raising urgent questions about safety and the resources necessary for support.
The Case That Shook the Community
One tragic story that highlights this issue is that of Marilyn Jean Davis, a vibrant 25-year-old woman, who was shot dead by her boyfriend in early 2020. The shocking part? This was not an isolated incident. In the years leading up to Marilyn’s death, two of her boyfriend Sean Wilson’s former partners had taken legal action against him, citing fear for their safety with complaints that echoed alarming tales of aggression and intimidation.
One of those women described an incident where she was put in a headlock while pregnant, stating, “He then opened the door and pushed me out while spewing profanity.” Another former girlfriend expressed concerns when she saw “bullet holes all over the house.” Tragically, it was not long after these warnings that Davis’s life was cut short.
The Struggle for Safety and Resources
Following the tragedy of Davis’s death, the issue of domestic violence in Buncombe has resurfaced discussions about the county’s comprehensive plan initiated in 2014 to tackle this pressing issue. While some progress has been made, it’s clear there is still much work to be done. Key recommendations from that plan have not been implemented, including the establishment of a dedicated team aimed at supporting the highest-risk victims—something that could potentially save lives.
As of now, four local agencies focused on assisting domestic violence victims are facing substantial cuts in federal funding—nearly $2 million is set to disappear just when the demand for services is rising. Helpmate, one of those local agencies, reports receiving five times the number of hotline calls compared to a decade ago, which speaks volumes about the ongoing crisis households are facing.
A Growing Need and Limited Resources
Helpmate’s executive director, April Burgess-Johnson, notes, “We’re kind of playing God every day, trying to decide who gets the last bed.” Their emergency shelter, with only 20 beds, is frequently full, forcing some victims to travel far away—up to 17 counties—to find safe refuge. “That’s just unacceptable that a survivor should have to leave their work, their kid’s school…,” she stated passionately.
Progress Versus Ongoing Violence
Despite the challenges, some progress has been made since Buncombe adopted its 2014 plan. Former County Commissioner Holly Jones is proud of improvements like better service coordination and the establishment of the Family Justice Center. Yet, with ongoing incidents of domestic violence—including high-profile cases like the chilling murder of Malerie Crisp by a man with a long history of violence—the community cannot afford to be complacent. As Jones put it, “We surely can’t declare victory… As long as people are in harm’s way, we need to get better.”
Burgess-Johnson adds that a dedicated high-risk team that could identify the most dangerous cases might help prevent future tragedies. The team model has shown success in states like Massachusetts, which have been able to significantly reduce domestic violence-related deaths.
The Future for Victims
As Buncombe faces these make-or-break moments, it’s clear the community’s collaboration is critical. The newly formed PorchLight Project—a network of local businesses trained to support domestic violence victims by providing a safe space for assistance—offers a glimmer of hope amid the challenges.
A Personal Tragedy Ignites Change
Marilyn Davis’s mother, Margaret Belcher, continues to advocate for better awareness and support for victims of domestic violence. She expressed her heartbreak, stating, “I had no clue until it was too late.” Her plight underscores the powerful mantra that the community must remain vigilant and active in addressing these serious matters. Davis, a free spirit who shared joy and kindness with everyone around her, deserves that her story not be forgotten but instead illuminate the path for change.
Buncombe County stands at a crossroads, facing tremendous challenges yet also possessing unique opportunities for reform and support. As community voices unite and resources expand, there is hope that the future will be brighter for those impacted by domestic violence. As they say, it takes a village to raise awareness and affect change, and that commitment is essential now more than ever.
